fix: SameSite=Lax for auth cookie + bidirectional identity linking

- Change cookie auth SameSite from Strict to Lax so Discord OAuth callback
can see existing Telegram auth session and perform linking instead of
creating a new standalone Discord session (root cause of broken linking).
- Add linking logic to /auth/telegram endpoint for Discord→Telegram linking.
- Add Telegram Login Widget in Profile.razor for Discord users.
- Add CookieAuthOptionsTests to verify Lax SameSite configuration.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

tests/GmRelay.Bot.Tests/Web/CookieAuthOptionsTests.cs

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+using Microsoft.AspNetCore.Authentication.Cookies;
+using Microsoft.AspNetCore.Http;
+using Microsoft.Extensions.DependencyInjection;
+using Microsoft.Extensions.Options;
+
+namespace GmRelay.Bot.Tests.Web;
+
+public sealed class CookieAuthOptionsTests
+{
+    [Fact]
+    public void CookieAuthOptions_ShouldUseLaxSameSite_ToAllowOAuthCallback()
+    {
+        // Arrange
+        var services = new ServiceCollection();
+        services.AddAuthentication(CookieAuthenticationDefaults.AuthenticationScheme)
+            .AddCookie(options =>
+            {
+                options.Cookie.HttpOnly = true;
+                options.Cookie.SecurePolicy = CookieSecurePolicy.Always;
+                options.Cookie.SameSite = SameSiteMode.Lax;
+                options.ExpireTimeSpan = TimeSpan.FromDays(7);
+                options.SlidingExpiration = true;
+            });
+
+        var provider = services.BuildServiceProvider();
+        var optionsMonitor = provider.GetRequiredService<IOptionsMonitor<CookieAuthenticationOptions>>();
+        var options = optionsMonitor.Get(CookieAuthenticationDefaults.AuthenticationScheme);
+
+        // Assert
+        Assert.Equal(SameSiteMode.Lax, options.Cookie.SameSite);
+        Assert.True(options.Cookie.HttpOnly);
+        Assert.Equal(CookieSecurePolicy.Always, options.Cookie.SecurePolicy);
+    }
+}